Before breaking into the swinging world, there are a few definitions you should understand. Swinging not only has it's own set of rules, but also it's own set of words and phrases.

A

AC/DC – Someone who enjoys sex with both male and female sexes.

Adam – Nickname for Ecstasy

Alternative Lifestyle – Someone who lives a lifestyle that is different than most.

Ampallang - Again a pleasurable piercing for both partners, thought to have originated in Borneo. 

This horizontal piercing through the glands of the penis behaves better, heals faster and is stronger if the barbell passes through the urethra. The urine of wearer (provided he is in good health) is sterile to him and thus regularly cleanses the piercing.

If the piercing passes through the urethra, it is in fact two piercings but done as one, thus the healing is faster.

Provided the removable ball-end of the barbell is well tightened no damage should be caused to either condoms or the cap.

If the wearer of an ampallang has a foreskin it should be worn retracted during the healing process. If the foreskin is worn down over the ampallang a) air cannot get to the piercing and b) the pressure of the foreskin will push the bar at an angle causing discomfort and the piercing to heal at an angle.

It is not advisable to remove the barbell before at least a year, and then not for long. The piercing will contract very quickly making the replacement of the barbell very difficult, if not impossible.

A slim, gently tapered insertion rod, as a lead-in to the barbell can be very useful to those who need to remove and re-insert their jewellery from time to time. If the jewellery is removed before healing is complete the piercing will heal almost immediately leaving, when healed, only a very small indentation in the surface of the glans.

Anal Beads – A sexual anal toy in the shape of balls. That is used to stimulate the anal or vagina.

Anal Sex – Anal intercourse.

Analingus – Oral stimulation of the anus.

Apadravya - This is a vertical piercing through the glans. As the barbell passes through the urethra, it is difficult to perform this piercing accurately unless the entry point is made via an existing Prince Albert.

A barbell is best employed for this job, as a ring needs to be of a very large diameter.

With regard to healing this piercing behaves much the same as the , and the advice concerning the foreskin and removal of jewellery is the same.

This piercing is mentioned in the Kama Sutra.

Arts – Into sexual fetishes.

ATM – Ass to mouth.

Attraction - Drawn to someone or something that is appealing. 

B

B&D or BD – Bondage, Discipline.

Back door – Anal sex.

BBW – Big beautiful women, a woman that weighs more than average that is beautiful in the face or in personality.

BDSM – Bondage, discipline, Sadism Masochism.

BHM – Big handsome man, a man that weights more than average that is handsome in the face or in personality.

Bisexual – Also known as BI. Someone who enjoys sex with both men and female sexes.

Bi- Comfortable – Someone who is comfortable being around and flirted with by both sexes in a sexual manner.

Bi-Curious – Someone who is interested in sexual encounters with the same sex.

Bi-Friendly – Someone who will have sexual encounters with the same sex but prefers the opposite sex.

Bi-Furious – Someone that is attractive to the same sex more than someone that is just bisexual. But not homosexual.

Blue Balls – A term used to describe a very horny male.

Bondage – Sexual fetish that contains restraints. By being tied up with some kind of object.

Boundaries – Someone’s limitations to sexual activities

Bukkake – Japanese term for sperm shower.

Butt Plug – A sexual toy that is shaped of a bullet placed in anus for sexual stimulation or pressure.

 C

Can Entertain – Someone that who has a private location and can invite others to come and enjoy themselves. 

Can Travel – Someone that will travel to your private location to enjoy themselves.

Caning – A spanking fetish

Cialis - Medication to help a male to keep an erection.

Cheaters – Sexual encounters with others without spouses permission or knowledge.

Chemistry – A sexual vibe between two or more people.

Clean – Sexual transmitted disease free. And clean hygiene.

Click – When all parties feel comfortable with each other in a sexual manner.

Clickish – A group of couples or individuals that always stay with in their group of friends.

Climax – A female that reaches the peek of their orgasm.

Clit – Clitoris.

Clitoris – A woman’s G-Spot located at the top of the vagina. Between the inner lips.

Clitoris Piercing - This is a VERY rare piercing, and it is serious business. Only a highly experienced master should attempt it. The vast majority of women who request them actually want a clitoral hood piercing. Of the women who request an actual clitoris piercing, and know what they are asking, approximately 90-95% are not suitably built. Absolutely vital in clitoris piercing is to pierce ONLY women with the ideal anatomy. This is not an area to take chances.

Most women posses a clitoris that is too small to withstand a piercing. Of those who are large enough, most women have hood tissue that fits too tightly or heavily over the clitoris. The clitoris in question must be large and easily exposed to be safe to pierce and to heal.

Even for a well developed clitoris, 16 gauge jewelry is the most common starting size. If the clitoris itself isn't able to be clamped, either from being too small, or from the process being too intense for the piercee, then she isn't a good candidate.

For those women who are built for it, a clitoris piercing is an intense experience. There is no doubt about an increase in sensation. There is also usually some development to the tissue, resulting in increased size on most.

Cock Ring - A ring that goes around the base of the penis to keep an erection. 

Completely Open – Couples that are willing to try most lifestyle experiences.

Condom - a thin latex (a type of rubber) sheath that is worn on the penis to protect from pregnancies and sexual transmitted disease.

Couple – A committed relationship between two people that is willing to have sexual relations with other couples.

Couples Club – A dance club for swingers.

CPL – Couple.

CSG – Creapy Single Guy.

Cuckold – A man who’s partner openly has sex with other people.

Cum – To release body fluid when you have orgasm.

Cunnilingus - Oral stimulation to the vagina.

D

DD – Disease and drug free.

Dildo – An object made of plastic or rubber for sexual stimulation of the vagina or anus.

Director – Someone who owns and runs a swingers organization.

Discipline – A sexual fetish that includes some sort of punishment. Receiving physical or mental pain.

Discreet – Someone or a couple who are closet swingers, very private about their alternative lifestyle.

Discretion – Someone or a couple who are closet swingers, very private about their alternative lifestyle.

Docile – Submissive.

Doggie Style – A bent over position with your ass in the air and, person behind you having intercourse. A sex position.

Domestic Training – Submissive obedience to humiliating orders.

Dominant – Someone in control of a willing submissive partner.

Doves – Nickname for Ecstasy

Double penetration – Objects in a female’s vagina and anus for sexual stimulation.

DP – Double penetration.

Dydoe - Dydoe piercing are usually done as pairs - one either side of the glans, through its edge.

This is mainly a piercing for circumcised men and is said to return some of the sensations lost with removal of the foreskin.

Unless the ridge of the glans is particularly well developed, these piercings tend to be a bit weak where they emerge from their highest point.

On an uncircumcised penis these piercings can migrate due to pressure exerted by the foreskin.

Barbells with small balls seem best for these piercings, but some men prefer small rings.

E

E - Abbreviation for Ecstasy

Entertain - Someone that who has a private location and can invite others to come and enjoy themselves.

Ecstasy - "intense joy or delight." Despite its peppy name, the illegal drug ecstasy can damage nerve cells in the brain. Ecstasy, also known as 3,4 methylenedioxymethamphetamine or "MDMA" for short, is a stimulant related to the drugs mescaline and amphetamine.

Exhibitionism – Involving nudity in public. For one’s sexual enhancement.

Exhibitionist – Sexual arousement from being watched.

Erection – A male with a hard penis.

Erotic – Something that sexual stimulates someone by watching.

F

F – Female

Fellatio – Oral stimulation to the penis.

Fellation – Oral stimulation to the penis.

Fetish – Non sexual acts or objects that are used for sexual arousal and pleasure.

FFM – Threesome - female, female, Male.

FMF – Threesome – female, male, female.

Foot Play – A foot fetish, someone who is aroused by feet.

Foreplay – Sexual activity but not intercourse.

Foresking - The foreskin is usually pierced on each side. Whilst healing one ring is worn in each piercing but when healed a single ring or barbell can safely be passed through both.

Depending on the preferences of the wearer several piercings can be made through the foreskin, although because swelling can result it is not really advisable to have more than two done at any one time.

Foreskin piercings can be enlarged fairly easily if done gradually with patience. A ring or short barbell worn through each piercing in no way hinders retraction of the foreskin.

It is believed this piercing was used on male slaves in ancient Rome to enforce chastity.

Fourchette - This is the vertical perineum piercing which is analogous to the male Guiche. Most women do not possess a pinchable flap or fold of tissue at the back edge of the vagina, where this piercing is placed. If you don't have any skin there, you aren't. However, if you are built for it, a Fourchette is a wonderful spot for wearing jewelry.

Frenum – The piercing is probably European in origin, a simple but effective piercing through the loose the penis head. A small ring or barball can be worn or a larger ring which goes through the piercing and encir snugly in the groove behind the glans when the penis is flaccid.

Full Swap – A couple or someone that enjoys sexual intercourse and oral sex with other couples.

Fun – Sexual activity.

G

Gang bang – A group of males having sex with a female all at the same time. Also a group of males having sex with a male. 

Gay – Homosexual usually refers to a male and sometimes a female.

GBF – Gay black female.

GBM – Gay black male.

Generous – Money for sex.

GHB - Gamma hydroxy butyrate or Gamma hydroxybutyric acid, Sodium Oxybate

Description: A clear liquid. Looks just like water. Can be mistaken for water because it is usually found in a small (30ml) clear plastic bottle, a water bottle, or even Gatorade bottles, which contains several doses. One quick taste, and you'll know it's not water. Not as common, but also found as a white powder. Infact powder use is on the rise!

Effects: Intoxication, increased energy, happiness, talking, desire to socialize, feeling affectionate and playful, mild disinhibition, sensuality, enhanced sexual experience, muscle relaxation, loss of coordination due to loss of muscle tone, possible nausea, difficulty concentrating, loss of gag reflex.

Many people have bad reactions. These can includenausea, headaches, drowsiness, dizziness, amnesia, vomiting, loss of muscle control, respiratory problems, loss of consciousness, being conscious but unable to move, and death- Especially when combined with alcohol or other drugs.

Effects of large doses: Disinhibition, sedation, desire to sleep, rambling incoherent speech, giddiness, silliness, difficulty thinking, slurred speech, passing out, and death. Here's one scenario: While You Were Sleeping - Online Presentation of GHB Dangers
***WARNING - if your friend passes out, always seek medical attention immediately, no matter what anyone else tells you.***

Effects of overdose: Sleep or deep sedation from which you cannot be awakened by any means for about three hours, and in many cases, death. Passing out while on GHB is sometimes called carpeting out, scooping out, or throwing down.

  Street Names for GHB: GHB, "G" (most common), Gamma-OH, Liquid E, Fantasy, Georgia Home Boy, Grievous Bodily Harm, Liquid X, Liquid Ecstasy (is not ecstasy), Scoop, Water, Everclear, Great Hormones at Bedtime, GBH, Soap, Easy Lay, Salty Water, G-Riffick, Cherry Meth, and Organic Quaalude, Jib.

Girl Condom - a polyurethane sheath with a flexible ring at either end. One end is closed and is inserted into the vagina, the other end is open and the ring sits outside the opening of the vagina. To help protect from pregnancies and sexual transmitted disease.

Girl Play – Females only have sex with each other. And the men watch, and have sex with their own partner.

Giving Head – Someone giving oral pleasure.

Golden Shower – Being urinated on for sexual pleasure.

Group Room – A room set up for group sex, wall to wall mattresses.

Group Sex – Sexual activity with three or more people.

Guiche - Said to be popular with South Pacific natives, this piercing is located through the ridge of skin between the anus and the scrotum, this can make it inappropriate for men with certain jobs and hobbies such as motorcycling, cycling and horse riding etc.

Usually a ring is worn which can be very arousing if gently stroked or tugged, during healing a little nagging may be experienced but any discomfort can be minimalised by wearing a pad of tissue over it.

Once healed no discomfort is experienced - quite the opposite in fact.

GWF – Gay white female.

GWM – Gay white male.

H

Hafada - This piercing is most successful when done through a forward fold of skin, as there is less chance of rejection.

These days it is more usual to have a piercing on each side of the scrotum as opposed to just one, several hafadas can be worn, including through the central seam of the scrotum but it is not advisable to have too many done at the same time as it delays healing.

A ring is more practical than a barbell but when healing is complete either can be used.

This particular piercing originated in Arabia, where a ring was inserted through the left side of the scrotum when a youth reached manhood.

Some piercers prefer not to perform this piercing on the grounds that puncturing the scrotum can create a passage via which bacteria can enter the abdominal cavity and cause infection.

Hard Core – A swingers party or engagement where sexual activity is expected.

Hard Core Swingers – A couple that has been swinging for awhile and swinging is their lifestyle, not experimenting.

HCH – Horizontal Clitoral Hood.

Head – Someone receiving oral pleasure.

Hedonist – Someone who lives for pleasure.

Heterosexual – Someone who is attracted to the opposite sex.

Homophobic – Someone who is uncomfortable around the same sex in a sexual manner.

Homosexual – Someone who is attracted to the same sex.

Horizontal Clitoral Hood - The HCH is a piercing done primarily for aesthetic purposes. In order for it to be directly stimulating, it needs to be placed on a woman whose clitoris is somewhat exposed, and situated so that the bead falls directly on the clitoris. Also, if the woman is not built fairly symmetrical, the ring will have a tendency to lean or twist to one side.

The majority of women are constructed in such a way that the hood covers the clitoris. Therefore, the jewelry in an HCH rests atop the hood, and isn't nearly as pleasurable as a piece of jewelry that comes into direct contact with the clitoris.

They can be very attractive, and some women who are anatomically suited will opt for this over other possibilities, because they like the look. Historically, aesthetics has been a valid reason for piercing, and it still is today. A genital piercing can be visually delightful even if it is not placed for direct action.

Usually they are started with a ring or circular barbell in 14 or 12 gauge. Care must be taken to check the vascularity of the region, and to be sure the tissue pulls away from the nerve bundle of the clitoris before and during clamping (gently) in the forceps.

Horny – In need of sexual pleasure.

Host – Someone that greets others when they first enter a swingers club, convention, or resort also a host might would help recruit others to a certain swinger’s activity.

Hung – Large penis.

HWP – Height/weight proportionate.

I

Ice Braker – Someone or something that is used to get everyone relaxed and comfortable prior to sexual activities.

Indoor – General swinging activities.

Indoor Sports – General swinging activities.

Inner Labia- This is very similar to the tissue pierced in the VCH, it is fine and very quick to heal. We generally begin with rings in 14 gauge. Most commonly a 1/2" diameter. On women who are smaller built, but still large enough to pierce sometimes use a smaller diameter ring. Some women, though it is rare, are not built large enough in this region to pierce. Inner labia are often pierced in pairs or multiples, though a single ring on either side is certainly an option.

Inner labia piercing may bleed, as the tissue is fairly vascular. Pads or panty liners are advisable at first, as is wearing underwear when the piercing is new.

One's own bodily fluids are apt to get on this type of piercing, but this is not harmful. Urine may sting at first, and during the initial days of healing you may wish to drink lots of water. This will result in less acidity and reduced stinging as you urinate. Also helpful is to pour a clean cup of warm or cool (as you prefer) water over the area as you urinate. This will rinse it away from you as you go, and that will diminish any discomfort.

Most women will find piercings in this site primarily visually pleasing, but are not apt to feel a great deal of erotic stimulation unless they are placed high up, near the clitoris. For piercings a male partner might feel during intercourse, they can be placed mid-way across the vaginal opening.

Interested in friendship – Seeks a swinging relationship that includes sexual, emotional and recreational values and activities.

IIF – Interested in friendship.

IR – Interracial.

ISO – In search of.

J

Jacking Off – A male that is masturbating.

K

L

Leather – A sexual fetish of wearing leather or the touch of leather for a sexual stimulation.

Lesbian – A gay or homosexual woman.

Lifestyle – Another word for swingers.

LTR – Long term relationship.

M

M – Male

Manager – Someone that’s in charge of a Swingers club, Convention or Resort.

Material Aids – Sex toys and other devises used for sexual pleasures.

Masochism – Sexual pleasure from pain and humiliation received from others.

Master – Sexual fetish, bondage, , dominant and discipline.

Matroom – A room set up for group sex.

Mattress room – A room set up for group sex.

MBC – Married black couple.

MBIC – Married bi couple.

M.D.M.A. – Ecstasy

Meet for Pleasure – Willing to meet for sex.

Menage A’ Trois – Three people, two of one sex and one of the opposite sex. A French word for threesome.

MFM – Male, female, male.

MFMF – Male, female, male, female.

Missionary – This is the most common sex position. A female laying down on her back and a male laying on his stomach, on top of the female having intercourse.

Moresome – More than three people having group sex.

MWC – Married white couple.

N

NASCA – The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels of members: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines, general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research.

Newbies- Couples that are new to the lifestyle.

Newcomers – People new to swinging.

Non Smoker – Does not smoke.

Not Homophobic – Someone who is comfortable around the same sex during sexual activity.

Not pushy – Someone or a couple that is not sexually aggressive to others.

O

Off Premise – A pubic swingers club with no designated room for sexual activity.

On Premise – A private swingers club or party where sexual activity is allowed.

Opened Door – Sexual activity in a room with no privacy.

Open Relationship – A relationship in which the partners are free to take other partners to swingers activities.

Orgy – Several people taking part in group sex.

Outer Labia - These are sturdy piercings that take a little longer to heal. They can be placed anywhere along the pinchable rim of the outer lips. They are often done in pairs or multiples. Most women will find piercings in this region primarily visually pleasing, but are not apt to feel a great deal of erotic stimulation as would be expected from a hood piercing.

P

Party – Gathering of three people or more.

Party Clothes – Clothes designated for swingers activities. Including sexy cloths, lingerie, robes, and cloths with easy excess to private parts.

Party House – A swingers house party that is on premise. 

Passive – Willing to receive corrective training.

Passive Watching – Someone or a couple who enjoys watching others have sex.

Photo – Exchange a nude or sexual explicit photos of their self’s with others.

Photography – Interested in taking nude or sexual explicit photos of others.

Pics – Pictures

Play Solo – Someone that has sexual activity with out their partner.

Polyamory – A love or committed relationship involving more than two people.

P/P – Photo and phone number.

Premature Ejaculator – A male ejaculates during foreplay or with in seconds of sexual intercourse.

Prince Albert - This is probably the most popular of the male genital piercings. Said to have originated during the 19th century as a means of securing the penis to the leg, at a time when tight trousers were the fashion thus avoiding a too visible bulge.

Success rate for this piercing is virtually 100%. Once healed, after a period of about six months the ring can be removed for several days without the piercing contracting too much to allow for re-insertion.

This is a very pleasurable piercing for both partners, perhaps the only disadvantage being that one's aim whilst urinating can be disturbed slightly due to the presence of the ring in the urethra.

A ring or a version of a ring is really the only practical type of jewellery for this piercing. A barbell is impractical because both ends cannot be held to tighten the ball ends unless it is sufficiently long enough to allow both balls to be outside the glans, this can in turn be uncomfortable due to the rod passing through the piercing diagonally.

Provided the jewellery has a strong ball closure and is correctly fastened no problems should arise with condoms and caps.

Princess Diana - This is a pair of piercings with small rings (14 gauge, 3/8" or 7/16") that sit up under the hood tissue, much the way a VCH does. However, this is a pair of them turned outward in a horizontal placement (but under the hood, right next to the clitoris!)

Pro – Professional or paid prostitutes and escorts.

Pubic - Visually a pleasing piercing but can be slow to heal particularly if the pubic area tends to be a little fatty.

A pubic piercing stands more chance of success if placed very slightly above the base of the penis where it joins the body.

A ring is best employed for this piercing but once healed a barbell can be worn if preferred.

Purse Carrier – A man that watches his wife or girlfriend play with another women and does not get to participate.

Pushy – Someone or a couple that is aggressive about sexual activity.

Pussy Fart – Quief.

Q

Quief – Air leaving the vagina during intercourse or just after.

R

Reclaim Sex – To have sex with your partner after you have sex with an individual or couple.

Recreational Swinger – Someone or a couple who practices swinging with no strings attached. 

Restraint – Mild bondage.

Reverse Prince Albert - This piercing is a 'half' apadravya and has the advantage of being less rigid than the apadravya as a ring is used rather than barbell, it combines well with a Prince Albert, the two rings overlapping in the urethra without discomfort.

As mentioned previously if correct jewellery is securely worn no problems should result with caps and condoms. This piercing is a 'half' apadravya and has the advantage of being less rigid than the apadravya as a ring is used rather than barbell, it combines well with a Prince Albert, the two rings overlapping in the urethra without discomfort.

As mentioned previously if correct jewellery is securely worn no problems should result with caps and condoms.

Roman – Sexual orgies, group sex.

Rope – Material used for a sexual fetish.

Rubber – Condom, or a material that is used for a sexual fetish. 

S

Sadism – Sexual satisfaction through pain or humiliation on others.

Safe – A person who can not impregnate due to surgery.

S.A.S.E. – Self addressed stamped envelope.

Same Room – Couples that only have sex in the same room. Where all couples are visible.

S.B.F. – Single black female.

SBIF – Single bi female.

S.B.M. – Single black male.

SBIM – Single bi male.

SCAT – The use of body waste to arouse sexual stimulation.

SDC – Swingers Date Club.com

S.G.L.- Single.

S&M or S/M – Sadism and Masochism.

Sensual Message – Sexual message that usually ends with sexual climax.

Separate Room – Couples willing to have sex with other partners in separate rooms with out their own partner.

Sextasy – The best sex that you can image.

Single – A swinger male or female with out a partner. 

Social – A place for swinger to meet and be social. Usually a party, club, or restaurant is where most swingers socialize.

Sodomy – Anal or oral sex forced.

Soft Swingers – Enjoys oral sex with others but only intercourse with their own partners.

Soft Swinging – Soft swinging is where a lot of swingers begin. It simply means that partners can be swapped for foreplay, but the actual intercourse is off limits. Partners switch back to their original mates if they would like to have intercourse.

S.R.S – Same room sex.

S.T.D. – Sexual transmitted disease also known as VD.

STR. or STR8 – Straight, as in heterosexual.

Straight – Someone who is heterosexual and, not interested in having homosexual sexual activities. In some cases defines someone who does not use drugs.

Strap-On – Artificial penis with harness that females use to experience intercourse with each other.

Submissive – Someone that wishes to be dominated, by taking orders from another person.

Swap – Two couples trading partners for sexual activity.

Swedish Message – Message to sexually stimulate.

S.W.F – Single white female.

Swinging – Recreational activities with other swingers.

Swinging Lifestyle – A style of living, a choice of friends and social life and, sexual relationships with new partners.

Swinging Marriage – A married couple that participates in the swinging lifestyle.

Swingers - To have sex as a couple with another couple, to experience sex with another person as a couple, to have a fantastic sex experience.

Swingers Club - Private membership club that offers social and swinging activities. Membership fees may apply.

Swinger Comedian – Chris Vee, someone that tells jokes about the swingers lifestyle.

Swingers Magazine – A magazine that carries personal adds of people wanting to meet others for swinging activities.

Swingers Website – An online community with profiles of swingers wanting to meet other swingers as individuals or couples.

S.W.M. – Single white male. 

T

Taking One For The Team– A couple that plays with another couple and, only one person of the other couple is attractive. Therefore one of the partners has to play with an unattractive person.

TAN – Tested Antibody Negative for HIV. (Aids)

Threesome – Three people, two of one sex and one of the other, participating in sexual activities. Also three people of the same sex participating in sexual activities.

Ticket – A female brought to a private swingers club, party, or convention in order for the single male to gain entrance as a couple.

Toss Salad – Oral sex on the anus.

Toys – Objects used for sexual pleasure. As in dildo’s, vibrator’s, whip’s, anal bead’s, lotion’s, and other relatable items.

Train – A group of males taking turns having sexual intercourse with a female. Also a group of males taking turns having anal intercourse with a male.

Transgendered – A person that is born one sex but identifies themselves as the opposite sex.

Transsexual – A person who takes hormone treatments to turn themselves into the opposite sex. As in medication or surgery.

Transvestite – Someone who receives sexual satisfaction by wearing the clothes of the opposite sex. This is more less a fetish. Not necessarily homosexual.

Travel – A couple or person willing to travel a far distance for sexual activity.

Traid – Two of one sex and one of the opposite sex in a committed relationship for sexual involvement. Not a three some. In most cases a husband and wife with a live in girlfriend.

Triolism – Desire for a threesome.

Tubal Ligation – Surgery done on a female, where they can’t get pregnant.

Tubes Tide – Surgery done on a female, where they can’t get pregnant.

Triangle - A triangle is a horizontal piercing behind the nerve bundle of the clitoris, at the base of the hood tissue where it forms from the body. In order for a triangle to be possible, your clitoral nerve bundle under your hood needs to be able to be lifted away from your body to some extent. If you are very small built in that area, or if you have a "valley" instead of a "hill" you are NOT suited to a triangle. A triangle and an HCH both essentially pierce through hood tissue. What is different about the triangle is where and how the forceps are placed during the piercing.

The point of the Triangle (pardon the pun) is that it is placed so the jewelry rests right behind the nerve bundle of your clitoris. Therefore, when your are stimulated, you feel more sensation from the BACK of your clitoris! A triangle is far more stimulating that an HCH for most women. It is a pretty fantastic spot for jewelry if one is built for it.

U

Unclaimed sex – To have sex with your partner before you have sex with a couple or individual.

Utopian Swinger – Someone that practices swinging lifestyle with humanistic ideals.

V

Vanilla – Refers to non swingers.

Vasectomy – Surgery done to males that disables their sperm to fertilize. Making them not able to have children.

Versatile – Bisexual.

Vertical Clitoral Hood – The VCH is the most popular female genital piercing we do, for several reasons. As the name implies, the piercing is placed vertically, and women's genitals are built vertically. This means the jewelry situates comfortably between the legs and is not subject to much stress.

Further, most women are built with some amount of hood tissue in which the jewelry can be placed for a safe, comfortable, attractive, and stimulating piercing. The piercing goes through only a thin bit of tissue above the clitoris (NOT through it) but the jewelry itself touches the clitoris. That means when there is any action in the area, the clitoris will receive more direct stimulation. Most women like this a lot.

This is a VERY quick healing piercing. I have had many women swear it heals in a week or even less. But to be on the safe side, you should care for it according to the instructions for four (4) weeks minimum.

A VCH is a piercing which feels very different with alternate styles of jewelry. It can be started with a bar (usually a bent barbell called an el-bar) or a ring style. Once healing is complete, experimenting with different lengths of bars and sizes of balls, or various sizes and shapes of rings can be very fun. The stimulation is definitely dependent on the style of jewelry. Personal preferences, as with all matters of sexual expression, will vary.

If you have a prominent hood, or petite outer labia leaving the hood region exposed, a bar may be best for starting jewelry, to minimize irritation. If your hood is rather tucked in, and/or your outer labia are full, then either a ring or bar is fine jewelry for starters.

The procedure (when done here) is extremely brief. This is not a major piercing, except for possibly the mental component. Physically we pierce a membrane of tissue--much less than an ear lobe. Many women comment that their ears hurt more. It does sting or pinch for a split second, and may momentarily startle you. By then it is over. Most women leave commenting that either they don't feel it at all or that it feels good already!

Viagra – A medication to help a male to keep an erection.

Vibrator – A vibrating device used for sexual stimulation.

Voluptuous – A female body not to big, but not small.

Voyeur – Someone who likes watching others involved in sexual activity.

Voyeurism – Sexual satisfaction by watching or spying on others involved in sexual activities.

VCH – Vertical Clitoral Hood

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Water sports – Urine play during sexual activities.

Way out – The liking of bizarre sexual activities.

Weirdo’s – Interested in bizarre sexual activities. That is not common by most.

Window Swinging – A couple or person that enjoys swinging activities as in clubs, parties, cruses, and conventions. But does not participate in any sexual activities. These people just enjoy the atmosphere.

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X – Abbreviation for Ecstasy.

XTC - Abbreviation for Ecstasy

XXX - Rated X , meaning pornographic

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